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Showing posts with label poem. Show all posts
Showing posts with label poem. Show all posts

Wednesday, 19 July 2017

12 Tips To Putting On A Gay Pride Event 🏳️‍🌈



So I thought I would write a little piece about the ups and downs and pitfalls of organising a Gay pride event. 
I doubted writing this piece for a while as I know it will cause uproar and probably outrage but I feel like I need to write something to get these feelings out. 


No one really tells you what goes into putting on an event what ever the scale and size of it.

It's our towns first event in 20yrs 
I look back now over the last 7 months and reflect on all the struggles we have had within the Gay community alone. 

The local community, local councils 
and emergency services have been very supportive of the event and want the event to take place but we have come up with more resilience from within our own community it is a very small community here in my town but it is getting bigger as the years have gone on. 

So I thought I would put together a checklist of 12 points to organising any type of event so someone in the future who thinks of putting an event on may have an idea of what to expect 

1. Build a strong team of more than 5 people to share workloads, depending on size of event and have plenty of meetings to cross reference where everyone is 
Set up a WhatsApp group
Set up a Facebook Chat 
2. Take the time and plan well in advance 
3. Seek guidance and advice from other Pride events or the UKPON 
4. Apply for all licences and permits within timeframes
5. Include all emergency services in plans and details, get contact details for all chiefs or commanders of police, fire, ambulance
6. Use online networks & websites to get details of local charities & organisations that might like to get involved.
7. Set up online accounts, social medias & websites before launching advent, get dates, times and addresses confirmed before going live 
Build a database of contact details for everyone. 
8. If you have budget get artwork, logos and advertising done well in advance 
9. Secure all bookings of toilet hire, stage hire, stalls, security, music acts, and any other main essentials with online form and deposits. 
10. Build a strong base of volunteers that will help on the day these are the most important people that will be helping on the day to make your event a success 
11. Keep people informed and keep in contact with everyone whether it’s stall holders, security teams, volunteers, stage crew basically anyone that is going to be involved 
12. Give your self 4 weeks before the date of event to have everything done signed and in place so the last few weeks aren't a crazy mess 

Lastly 
enjoy the event and if anything comes up deal with it calmly and quickly. 
And remember there are plenty of people out their to ask for help and advice and guidance 

From my personal experience I have learned that try not to let people’s opinions and comments reflect on the importance of putting on any type of event as you are going to criticism and hate and negativity especially from the gay community in small towns, 
I think in bigger towns and city’s that have gay scenes and community it’s not as bad but I wish anyone the best of luck in putting on their event and remember if you need any advice of help just ask. 


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Thursday, 26 January 2017

The Only Exception 🏳️‍🌈

The Only Exception 

When I was younger 
I saw my daddy cry
And curse at the wind.
He broke his own heart 
and I watched
As he tried to reassemble it.

And my momma swore
That she would 
never let herself forget.
And that was the day that I promised
I'd never sing of love
 if it does not exist.

But darling,
You are the only exception.

Maybe I know somewhere
Deep in my soul
That love never lasts.
And we've got to find other ways
To make it alone.
Or keep a straight face.
And I've always lived like this
Keeping at comfortable distance.
And up until now I've sworn to myself
That I'm content with loneliness.

Because none of it was ever worth the risk.

Well you are the only exception.
You are the only exception.

I've got a tight grip on reality,
But I can't let go 
of what's in front of me here.
I know you're leaving in the morning
When you wake up.
Leave me with some kind of proof
 it's not a dream.

You are the only exception

And I'm on my way to believing.
Oh, and I'm on my way to believing.

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Monday, 23 January 2017

What Is Love 2017🏳️‍🌈

So 
I wrote a post last year 
at the start of my blog 
Called 

I wrote the post 3 years ago this October but only published it last year 
I have written hundreds of posts, 
Poems, & stories which I have never took the time to actually sit down and put them all into digital form as I am to lazy to do it 

I published a free book on iTunes 
With 10 small stories/poems and it has had over 4,000 downloads 
So you think this would spur me on 
but it hasn't 

I have just finished watching a web series called hunting season season 2 
and the last episode 
really got me thinking about life in general 

Everyone in the 90s dreamed of being 
Carrie from Sex and city and write a blog that people will follow but I never realised it till now a year ago I said I was going to start writing more posts and putting them online and I just haven't 
I haven't made a decent youtube video in a long time I just haven't felt creative 
Which for me is a bad thing 

But then I ask myself why I haven't 
Is it cause I'm sad .......... maybe 
Is it cause I'm lonely ...... maybe 
Have I been waiting to find them 
one and not been looking in the right places ....... maybe 

Had casual sex and dating apps killing my passion for finding love ??? 
I think it might be 

We live in an age for me as a gay man 
To open an app and hook up with people at a few clicks of some buttons 
Some empty words 
A few sexual gestures 
And 20 minutes later your hooking up with a random stranger 
Where is the romance in that !!! 

And I've been doing it for too many years 
So today is the day 
I delete all the apps and start moving 
Myself forward 
Get out of this funk and do something worth while 

Let it be know 
The words and posts that will start to appear will be not for the faint hearted 
It's not going to be seedy or crude but I need to get all the bad stuff out from my past 
So I can look forward to my future 
Cause lets face it 
I ain't getting any younger 
And with my family history 
I'm gonna be bald by the time I'm 40 

So here we go 
No holds barred 
Unfiltered and ready to dish the dirt 

So 1 year ago I wrote 
What is L-O-V-E 
and to date it is one of my most viewed blog posts 
And in the last year I learnt nothing so 
We're going back to the old school 
So enjoy this ride and let me know and thoughts and comments of the stuff you read 

Sincerely 
Stephen X

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Sunday, 22 January 2017

The Time Is Now 🏳️‍🌈

The time is now

That's it the time is now
I have 5 months to my 30th bday and I'm not going to be the same person as I am now
the drinking
the smoking
the being single
the unhealthy ness
in my whole life has to end
 I have 5 months which is a good enough time scale to sort myself out and be in a good place
for when the big day comes
 I also am going to finish
how to play guitar
as its something
I have been pitting of for a long time
I have put my song writing behind me for so long and it's something
I feel passionate about
I can't sing for shit
 but like my writing I feel so much better when I get these thoughts out of my head and onto paper !!
So let it be said from this day
it is a whole new me
a whole new chapter to write about and a purpose in my life !!
So stayed tuned onto this blog and come with me on my journey
And let's see if there really is a path to happiness

Give it some time
Give yourself hope
give yourself something to look forward too
If not ill give u mine
Cause I don't need it anymore !!
Don't put all your eggs in one basket just incase it drops and breaks !!

I tend not to wear my heart on my sleeve as it hasn't got me very far in the past I try to fit in to so many different stereotypes and I seem to fit none of them

To quote a very famous lady
Songwriter and singer....

"I can't make you love me
if you don't
I can't make ur heart feel
something it dont want
So here in the dark
In this final hour
I can't make u feel something that you don't feel !! "....

No more true words have ever
Been spoken


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Saturday, 21 January 2017

Do You Think Of Me 🏳️‍🌈




Do you think of me

Sat here on the bus
thinking 
random thoughts in my head 
and a random podcast comes on
My shuffle list of one of our many drunken  
nights in and out and it makes me wonder 
if you ever think of me since we been apart

 its been 4 months now 
I know it was over long before then 
But the more I sit here 
The pains in my stomach 
Intensify and I feel sick 
Thinking bout you 
And wandering 
Do you think of me ? 

We haven't spoke for ages 
not even a txt 
I hope ur happy with the 
Choices that you have made 

And life works out for you 
I always said I would be there for you 
No matter what and I think time will tell on that one 
I can't promise you anything anymore 
Cause I don't know if 
Do you even think of me at all !!

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